I'm back at it again. For the whole month of November I will be blogging everyday.
In Honor of Diabetes Awareness Month.
In Honor of Diabetes Awareness Month.
That's right folks. EVERY DAY!!
I took the NaBloPoMo challenge for November. I did the same thing back in September and loved it, so I decided to have another go around. :) I'll be joining my friends; Meri, Jen, Wendy, Lora, Tracy and Sweet Mama.
Now as far as things on the home front.
I was really enjoying my Saturday until I looked through Peanuts Friday Folder from school. Then screaming at me were all these notes and graded homework. Normally this doesn't bother me but today it got to me.
There were notes from the teacher, "it is your responsibility to make sure your child is getting their homework completed every night." Really I get that, I don't mind helping with homework. But sitting there holding her hand each and every second just isn't what I had in mind. I thought we were supposed to be teaching them responsibility. How is it teaching them responsibility if we are constantly correcting everything they do? Doesn't that teach them that someone will always come around a "fix" stuff for them? Shouldn't there be consequences?
Well, yes they do have consequences. You see her homework counts toward her grade. So if I don't catch her "mistakes" and have her fix them before she turns the homework in then she gets marked down. How is that even fair? So it's all MY fault if she is getting less then and "A" average because I'm not correcting her homework before she turns it in. *sigh* Maybe I should just do her homework for her?!
Peanut also has at least an hour of homework each night. (did I mention that she is just in 2nd grade???) I help her with her 2 to 4 pages of homework along with going over spelling and vocabulary words every night. Someone please tell me how I am going to do an hours work of homework for each child once all three of them are in school in a few years??? That's our whole evening!!! How in the world does everyone balance this??
I apparently need to come up with a better schedule. I feel like we are rushed every night. Starting at 4p I get dinner on, 5p we eat. By 6p we are done eating and I usually have the kitchen cleaned up. 6p until 7p is usually homework time and then 7:30p is bedtime for the girls. (since Peanut has to get up at 6:30a so she is ready to leave by 7:30a.) I feel like there is no room for anything else except homework. I need the time to make sure Peanut is excelling in school. I want to give !00% but I'm not. I am exhausted, tired and short with the kids in the evening. I hate being this way.
So seriously my friends, I need your help! How do you handle homework in the evenings? I need some ideas to take some stress off of myself and still be able to give my all when I'm helping Peanut with her homework. If you don't want to comment please just send me a message to me at sweet2thesoul@gmail.com I want some ideas so fill my inbox or comments section up!



























